i don't know how you felt about that comment.

but please understand that i don't wish to see people being hurt by people's jokes about themselves,
or others to have a wrong impression of the victim.
the jokes you all make, wasn't just a joke, but one that hurts many.
so please control.

making fun of your friend don't benefit your friendship with one another.
it don't build you up, but rather bring yourself and your friends down.

i told you that is not that i want to piss you off or condemn your weakness.
but trying to make you realise that this is not Jesus wants us to do.

i don't know if this is the right thing to do,
and i don't know if i'm using the right words,
sorry if this sounds too _____ (fill in the blank),
cause i don't know what other ways i can make this message clearer.

and i don't know if you are reading this.
if you do, please know that i care,
not to stumble you, but acting as a support.